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Communications & Drills

DEFENSE
COMMUNICATION FAILURES KILL: In a crisis, confusion is deadly. Everyone needs to know what's happening and what to do. No guessing.
DRILLS MAKE IT AUTOMATIC: Under stress, you default to training. If you haven't practiced, you'll freeze or panic.

Family Communication Plan

Code Words

Simple, memorable words that trigger specific actions. No explanation needed.

Code WordMeaningResponse
"Come home now"Get to house immediatelyDrop what you're doing, return
"Lockdown"Threat nearby or at doorLock all doors, gather in safe room
"Leave now"Evacuate immediatelyExit via planned route, meet at point A
"All clear"Threat resolvedResume normal activity, stay alert
"Uncle [name]"Covert duress signalI'm being forced to say I'm okay

Code words should be normal phrases that don't sound suspicious if overheard. Avoid "Code Red" style - too obvious.

Meeting Points

If separated, where does everyone go?

Everyone should know all points by heart. Kids should be able to get there from school, store, friend's house.

Emergency Contacts

Post these where everyone can see:

Print and post near every phone. Kids should have copy in backpack. Laminate for durability.

Communication Methods

Primary: Cell Phones

In major emergencies, texts often go through when calls don't. Text uses less bandwidth.

Secondary: Landline

Backup: Two-Way Radios

Family: Get a pair of FRS radios ($30-50). Keep charged. Practice using them. Channel and privacy code must match.

Out-of-Area Contact Protocol

  1. Designate one person outside your region (100+ miles)
  2. Everyone memorizes their number
  3. If local communication fails, call out-of-area contact
  4. They coordinate messages between family members
  5. Check in at scheduled times (e.g., every 4 hours)

Drill Types

Lockdown Drill

Practice securing the house quickly.

  1. Announce "Lockdown" (or code word)
  2. Everyone stops what they're doing
  3. All exterior doors locked
  4. Windows checked and locked
  5. Everyone to safe room
  6. Safe room door locked
  7. Time how long this takes

Goal: Under 60 seconds for entire family to be in safe room with door locked.

Evacuation Drill

Practice leaving the house quickly.

  1. Announce "Leave now" (or code word)
  2. Everyone to their exit route
  3. Grab go-bag if time permits
  4. Exit via planned route
  5. Meet at Point A
  6. Account for all family members

Practice different scenarios: Front door blocked, fire in kitchen, intruder in hallway.

Fire Drill

Required by law in some places. Essential life safety.

  1. Smoke alarm sounds
  2. Everyone drops and crawls if smoke present
  3. Exit via nearest safe route
  4. Feel doors before opening (hot = fire on other side)
  5. Meet at designated point
  6. Account for everyone
  7. Call 911

Never go back inside for pets or valuables. Firefighters will rescue pets.

Break-In Drill

Practice response to intruder.

  1. Sound of break-in (glass breaking, kick, alarm)
  2. Call 911 immediately, put on speaker
  3. Announce "Lockdown"
  4. Gather family to safe room
  5. Lock safe room door
  6. If safe room not reachable, hide and be quiet
  7. Announce "Police are coming" loudly
  8. Do NOT investigate sounds

Drill Schedule

Recommended Frequency

DrillFrequencyNotes
Fire drillQuarterlyEspecially with kids
Lockdown drillQuarterlyTime it, improve
Evacuation drillTwice yearlyPractice different routes
Break-in drillAnnuallyMature family members only
Communication checkMonthlyTest radios, contacts

After Each Drill

Drills reveal problems. That's the point. Better to find out during practice than during emergency.

Special Considerations

Children

Elderly or Disabled

Pets

Checklists

Communication Setup

Drill Readiness

Scenario Drills

Drill: Phone Lines Down

  1. Cell and landline not working
  2. Use two-way radio to contact family
  3. Drive to out-of-area contact's house
  4. Or use ham radio if available

Drill: Kids Home Alone, Someone at Door

  1. Don't open door
  2. Look through peephole or window
  3. If unknown person: don't respond, call parent
  4. If threatening: call 911, hide
  5. If fire: exit via planned route, go to neighbor
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